Creating Space
Mark 1:35
My hunch on this weekend after Super Tuesday that many of you are tired of hearing political sound bites from the presidential candidates. But here is a speech excerpt that I’m sure you haven’t heard: “My fellow Americans, I promise you that if elected we as a nation will become healthier and happier … neither of which depend on government action. Rather, I will inspire you consume less and serve more, possess less stuff and enjoy more simple pleasures, be less focused on money and more on goodness, be less interested in entertainment and more on making a contribution. As a nation, I believe the path to more is less.”
The last time we had a President say anything resembling this philosophy was Jimmy Carter and he didn’t last more than one term in office. I can’t imagine any candidate running for office on a platform of personal down-sizing … for there are few ideas that could be more countercultural for us in America than one emphasizing “less.” We have drummed into us the message that if we just made more money, bought more stuff, could do more traveling, had more leisure time, had more choices, then life would certainly be better. But what we have seen in American society is that increasing affluence and the choices it provides don’t necessarily result in happier citizens. All that happens is that our level of expectations and perceived needs escalate and we’re even less satisfied than people were decades ago when they had far less.
Thus the challenge I have today in addressing the notion of the spiritual practices of abstinence … I am fully aware that this is very counter-cultural and that at least some of you will leave here thinking, “What was up with that “less is more” stuff? Why on earth would I want to shut off my computer or cell phone? Not eat or watch TV for a day? You’ve gotta be kidding me!” Well, all I ask is that you hang in there with me and see if you might get a divine nudge or two.
Review of Christian Spirituality
Let’s first review last week and be clear as to what Christians means by “spiritual.” Dr. Robert Webber in this book, The Divine Embrace, defines Christian spirituality as “Our mystical union with God accomplished by Jesus Christ through the Spirit … God passionately embraces us; we passionately embrace God. God makes us spiritual; we live a spiritual life.” The Christian sense of being “spiritual” is that God draws into his amazing story of life and liberation through Jesus. Jesus’ death is the death of our sinful self and his resurrection is ours as we receive the gift of eternal life. [Galatians 2:20 (NIV)]
Through Jesus, God initiates a relationship and we respond with trust and spiritual practice. We engage in spiritual practice not to earn a relationship with God but to experience more of his good gifts that are already ours in Jesus. We engage in spiritual practice not because we “have to” but because we “want to” … we want to be revitalized on our journey through life, we want to be transformed to be more like Jesus, and because we know what the result will be far more fruitful lives … we want to embody more of God’s love, joy, peace, patience, etc.
Room for God?
The Christian spiritual path is pursued through regular spiritual training. And like physical training, this calls for an intentional investment of time and energy … with spiritual training centering on Word and prayer. But here we discover an immediate issue … many of us are already up to our necks with responsibilities, commitments, and activities and frankly we don’t have room in our lives for more things to do. Our lives are already “full up.”
So it was for Jesus and his disciples as they sought to minister to people. There were always more people needing help and healing. We read of Jesus’ response in Mark 6: “The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, "Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest." So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place.” [Mark 6:30-32 (NIV)]
Those of you who are “doers” might well shake your heads at this … “How could Jesus have turned away from all those people in need?” Wasn’t the immediate task at hand more important than time away “spiritual navel-gazing?” Obviously, Jesus had a different, long term view. His disciples couldn’t stay healthy physically or spiritually if they didn’t take time for rest and for time away with God. It was a pattern in Jesus’ ministry … full ministry engagement followed by a time of rest, time with people and time with the Heavenly Father. If he and his followers didn’t say “No” for a time to the demands of others, they would not have been able to say “Yes” to being filled with God’s sustaining power.
Author Henri Nouwen speaks of his soul restlessness because he wasn’t making room for God … a restlessness that eventually led him to spend 7 months in a monastery. He writes, “While teaching, lecturing, and writing about the importance of solitude, inner freedom, and peace of mind, I kept stumbling over my own compulsions and illusions. What was driving me from one book to another, one place to another, one project to another? … What was turning my vocation to be a witness to God’s love into a tiring job? These questions kept intruding themselves into my few unfilled moments and challenging me to face my restless self. Maybe I spoke more about God than with him. Maybe my writing about prayer kept me from a prayerful life. Maybe I was more concerned about the praise of men and women than the love of God. Maybe I was slowly becoming a prisoner of people’s expectations instead of a man liberated by divine promises. Maybe …”
In his being driven to make a contribution for God, Nouwen had not left enough space for God. Let me illustrate it in this way. For any number of you, this container is your life. On most days, it is filled to the brim with activities, tasks, and relationship. There are even days when things overflow and there simply aren’t enough minutes in the day to attend to everything and everyone. Now in this situation, you simply can’t get anything more in … and the idea of doing anything more spiritually seems impossible and even burdensome. People tell me that they are too busy for once a week worship no less daily Bible reading.
If we are going to get anything else into this container, we need to empty some stuff out. Perhaps we pour out a little TV time, time and energy spent on the phone or text messaging, we cut down the work hours from 50+ to 40+, we engage in that favorite recreational activity only twice a week instead of four times … and what we’re doing is creating some margin in our lives … margin to spend time with God and to meet people’s needs as crises arise.
Thus the value of what Dallas Willard calls practices of abstinence. We say “no” or “less” to some things so that we can more fully say “yes” to God and create physical, emotional, and spiritual “space” to receive from him. [hold up half full container] There is room now for God to fill us up with his grace and truth, his guidance and strength. Let’s consider three practices that Christ-followers have used over the centuries to create space to experience God more fully in their lives.
The Practice of Solitude
Solitude is the practice of temporarily withdrawing from people and enjoying private engagement with God. As mentioned earlier, solitude was a regular part of the pattern of Jesus’ life. One example: “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.” [Mark 1:35 (NIV)] To practice solitude is to create space away from people and noise to hear from God. Solitude provides an opportunity to engage in other spiritual practices including reflection on the Word, prayer, journaling, private worship, and so on.
Now I suspect that those of you who are introverts and like being away from people don’t need to be convinced about the value of solitude. You know that even on an emotional level, you need time away from people. But those of you who are extroverts, who are energized by being around others, might find the intentional pursuit of solitude to be rather puzzling.
Why solitude? First and foremost, because we want to hear from God. We want to be separated from the demands of others and the noise of the media to reflect on God’s Word and to seek his guidance. You might remember the story of the prophet Elijah in the Old Testament. Elijah went into solitude not necessarily to seek God but out of fear that he would killed. Out in the wilderness, God gently confronted Elijah asking him, “What are you doing here?” He despairingly responded, “I have been very zealous for the Lord God Almighty. The Israelites have rejected your covenant, broken down your altars, and put your prophets to death with the sword. I am the only one left, and now they are trying to kill me too." [1 Kings 19:10 (NIV)] Then God revealed himself to Elijah. We read: “Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.” [1 Kings 19:11-12 (NIV)]
“A gentle whisper” … or as in the King James translation, “A still small voice.” So I believe God continues to direct our thoughts, to speak to our lives, not in a booming thunder but quietly as we consider his Word. If we’re listening … which is an increasingly difficult thing in a world filled with noise from human conversation, TV’s, CD’s, MP3’s, etc. All good, all informational and entertaining, but all of which can make hearing God’s gentle whisper difficult.
Which is why we carve out time for solitude. For me that involves often driving in the car without the radio on [something my own kids can’t understand why I would want to do … they’re addicted to noise!]. When I run or do other exercise, sometimes I’ll listen to an IPod Nano, sometimes I won’t. Sometimes I just want to think and pray. If you have small children at home, an hour or so of solitude will likely come either before the kids are awake or after bedtime. You may also want to consider a one day yearly retreat to do a personal “annual report” … in solitude evaluating the direction of your life and seeking God’s guidance for the coming year. Most of us living busy American lives will have to carve out quiet time from busy schedules and guard it jealousy.
A second related reason for solitude is to regain perspective. There is something about getting away from the rat race of daily life which clears the mind of its clutter, refreshes the spirit, and sharpens our focus. I liken it to these photos. At the speed of life, things can get rather blurry. Solitude can help us refocus.
When Billy Graham was beginning his evangelistic ministry, he had a number of conversations with another budding young preacher named Chuck Templeton. Templeton was on a path, however, away from trust in the Bible as God’s Word. Templeton told Graham that by continuing to believe the Bible he was committing intellectual suicide.
Graham knew he needed divine perspective and so while speaking at a conference in the San Bernardino Mountains, he went off into the forest to seek God. “Lord, what shall I do? What shall be the direction of my life?” As he walked alone, Graham realized that intellect alone couldn’t resolve the questions of the Bible’s inspiration and authority. Ultimately this is was an issue of faith. He tells of going to get his Bible, putting his Bible on a stump, and kneeling down. He said, “Oh, God; I cannot prove certain things. I cannot answer some of the questions Chuck is raising and some of the other people are raising, but I accept this Book by faith as the Word of God.” A basic and foundational faith perspective was clarified, solidified in solitude … shaping and motivating Graham’s ministry for the next half century.
The Practice of Fasting
Much more briefly, two other examples of abstinence. Fasting is the practice of abstaining from food for spiritual purposes. We aren’t talking dieting here … although if you fast long enough you’ll certainly lose weight. The typical practice is to eat no food and consume only water for a day so as to focus on prayer and spiritual matters. You can also do a partial fast such as not drinking alcohol for Lent or eating only vegetables as Daniel and his friends did for 10 days in the Old Testament.
Throughout the history of Israel and the early Church, there is an intimate connection between fasting and praying. People went without food so that they could seek God’s guidance and blessing. [Acts 14:23 (NIV)] We see this in the New Testament church when they were commissioning new leaders or launching new mission efforts. They fasted and prayed.
I think to modern minds, the idea of fasting seems almost ludicrous … why would we deny the body’s normal and healthy desire for food? In short, because fasting helps create space in time and body to experience a need and hunger for God. One practical value of fasting is that it frees up time to seek God. Particularly in ancient times before the advent of microwave dinners, food gathering, preparation, and eating took up a considerable chunk of each day. Periods of fasting gave people a lot more time for prayer. Even in our day when you can just pop something into the oven, you will be surprised how much extra time you will have in a day if you’re not eating. Use that time to get into the Word and to engage God in prayer.
More importantly, since we are embodied people, there is a close connection between body and spirit. And to have physical hunger is to point us to a deeper spiritual hunger. When we feel a need for food, it reminds us how much we need God. An empty stomach that needs to be filled helps us understand our equal need for God to fill our empty spirits. So fasting tied to prayer is a way of humbling ourselves before God and acknowledging our dependence upon him.
The Practice of Simplicity
Example three is the practice of simplicity -- having and doing less that we might slow our lives for the things of God. The reality of life for the American consumer is that the more we want to purchase and experience, the more research we have to do to make sure that we are purchasing and experiencing the best value [just went through that in making a car purchase – it takes time!]. Further, many items we purchase will require maintenance, so the more stuff we have, the more we have to think about and maintain, even if we are hiring someone else to do it. Inevitably we find our lives increasingly dominated by stuff.
Jesus teaches a different path of storing up heavenly rather than earthly treasures: “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” [ Matthew 6:19-21 (NIV)]
The practice of simplicity with regard to earthly treasures is one way to pursue a life that is focused on heavenly priorities. Simplicity is the path of deliberately choosing “less” and so creating space in time and attitude to attend to God. We are not so busy with the things of this life that we don’t have to time for Word and prayer. Further, we want to spend time with God because our heart is directed to eternal things rather than giving our ultimate allegiance to temporary things.
I hope I’ve made a case that less than be more. That less noise, less activity, less conversation, less stuff, and yes, even less food, can create space for the “more” which will make all the difference our lives: the more of God’s presence, wisdom, guidance, love, and joy. We don’t practice disciplines of abstinence with the end of depriving ourselves or making our lives miserable … neither of which are God-pleasing themselves. We say “No” or “Less” so that we can say “Yes” to divine riches.